Update git_repository_open

The cleanup needs to happen anyway, so set the error code and jump
there instead of copying the code.

Plug a few leaks

Add a new command `git_repository_open_ext` with extended options
that control how searching for a repository will be done.  The
existing `git_repository_open` and `git_repository_discover` are
reimplemented on top of it.  We may want to change the default
behavior of `git_repository_open` but this commit does not do that.

Improve support for "gitdir" files where the work dir is separate
from the repo and support for the "separate-git-dir" config.  Also,
add support for opening repos created with `git-new-workdir` script
(although I have only confirmed that they can be opened, not that
all functions work correctly).

There are also a few minor changes that came up:

- Fix `git_path_prettify` to allow in-place prettifying.

- Fix `git_path_root` to support backslashes on Win32.  This fix
  should help many repo open/discover scenarios - it is the one
  function called when opening before prettifying the path.

- Tweak `git_config_get_string` to set the "out" pointer to NULL
  if the config value is not found.  Allows some other cleanup.

- Fix a couple places that should have been calling
  `git_repository_config__weakptr` and were not.

- Fix `cl_git_sandbox_init` clar helper to support bare repos.

This is Git yo. You can fetch stuff from the history if you need it.

Basic branch management API

Fix compilation warning

Allow references to bear non-7bit-ascii names on Windows

Rewrite status using diff

There was a bug in git_buf_join_n when the contents of the
original buffer were joined into itself and the realloc
moved the pointer to the original buffer.

This adds support for a bunch of core.* settings that affect
diff and status, plus fixes up some incorrect implementations
of those settings from before.  Also, this cleans up the
handling of config settings in the new submodules code and
in the old attrs/ignore code.

When processing status for a newly checked out repo, it is
possible that there will be submodules that have not yet been
initialized.  The only way to distinguish these from untracked
directories is to have some knowledge of submodules.  This
commit adds a new submodule API which, given a name or path,
can determine if it appears to be a submodule and can give
information about the submodule.

I decided that the COITERATE macro was, in the end causing
more confusion that it would save and decided just to write
out the loops that I needed for parallel diff list iteration.
It is not that much code and this just feels less obfuscated.