Here, we were going down the wrong path in perform_member_init because of
the incorrect parens around the mem-initializer for the array.  And then
cxx_eval_vec_init_1 didn't know what to do with a CONSTRUCTOR as the
initializer.  The latter issue was a straightforward fix, but I also wanted
to fix us silently accepting the parens, which led to factoring out handling
of TREE_LIST and flexarrays.  The latter led to adjusting the expected
behavior on flexary29.C: we should complain about the initializer, but not
complain about a missing initializer.

As I commented on PR 92812, in this process I noticed that we weren't
handling C++20 parenthesized aggregate initialization as a mem-initializer.
So my TREE_LIST handling includes a commented out section that should
probably be part of a future fix for that issue; with it uncommented we
continue to crash on the testcase in C++20 mode, but should instead complain
about the braced-init-list not being a valid initializer for an A.

	PR c++/86917
	* init.c (perform_member_init): Simplify.
	* constexpr.c (cx_check_missing_mem_inits): Allow uninitialized
	flexarray.
	(cxx_eval_vec_init_1): Handle CONSTRUCTOR.