This moves some of the odb_backend stuff that is related to the
internals of an odb_backend implementation into include/git2/sys.

Some of the stuff related to streaming I left in include/git2
because it seemed like it would be reasonably needed by a normal
user who wanted to stream objects into and out of the ODB.

Also, I added APIs for traversing the list of backends so that
some of the tests would not need to access ODB internals.