Upgrade xdiff to version used in core git 2.4.5 (0df0541).

Corrects an issue where an LF is added at EOF while applying
an unrelated change (ba31180), cleans up some unused code (be89977 and
e5b0662), and provides an improved callback to avoid leaking internal
(to xdiff) structures (467d348).

This also adds some additional functionality that we do not yet take
advantage of, namely the ability to ignore changes whose lines are
all blank (36617af).