This adds support to diff and status for running filters (a la crlf)
on blobs in the workdir before computing SHAs and before generating
text diffs.  This ended up being a bit more code change than I had
thought since I had to reorganize some of the diff logic to minimize
peak memory use when filtering blobs in a diff.

This also adds a cap on the maximum size of data that will be loaded
to diff.  I set it at 512Mb which should match core git.  Right now
it is a #define in src/diff.h but it could be moved into the public
API if desired.