Introduce `git_filter_list__convert_buf` which behaves like the old
implementation of `git_filter_list__apply_data`, where it might move the
input data buffer over into the output data buffer space for efficiency.

This new implementation will do so in a more predictible way, always
freeing the given input buffer (either moving it to the output buffer or
filtering it into the output buffer first).

Convert internal users to it.