Currently, one would use either `git_oidmap_insert` to insert key/value pairs
into a map or `git_oidmap_put` to insert a key only. These function have
historically been macros, which is why their syntax is kind of weird: instead of
returning an error code directly, they instead have to be passed a pointer to
where the return value shall be stored. This does not match libgit2's common
idiom of directly returning error codes.Furthermore, `git_oidmap_put` is tightly
coupled with implementation details of the map as it exposes the index of
inserted entries.

Introduce a new function `git_oidmap_set`, which takes as parameters the map,
key and value and directly returns an error code. Convert all trivial callers of
`git_oidmap_insert` and `git_oidmap_put` to make use of it.